Overwhelmed by Options? How to Choose Your Path to Success (and Actually Get There!)

When faced with a myriad of pathways to success and financial gain, it can be overwhelming to choose a direction. The good news is, having many options is a strong position to be in! The key is to organize your thoughts, strategically plan your actions, stay grounded in your true aspirations, and execute.


Navigating the Abundance: Your Path to Purposeful Success


As a lawyer and success coach, I've observed a common pitfall among those who don't achieve their desired level of success: they simply don't try in the right ways. Operate in wisdom rather correctness. Trust me, it’s a difference. It's not about a lack of desire, but often a lack of structured effort, self-awareness, and spiritual grounding. You might have countless ideas for making money or achieving your definition of success, but without a clear framework, those options can become a source of paralysis rather than power.

I'm not here to share theories or abstract concepts. The steps to making wise choices – notice I said wise choices, not necessarily the right choices, as "right" can be subjective – are practical and actionable. And you cannot skip any of these steps.


Step 1: Ground Yourself and Gain Clarity


Before you even begin to sort through your options, it's crucial to ground yourself. For many, this means being grounded in Christ, allowing faith to be the compass that guides your decisions. This spiritual foundation provides a powerful lens through which to evaluate your ambitions and ensures your pursuits align with your deepest values.

Once grounded, take time for a total life assessment. This isn't just about your career or finances; it's about evaluating your life holistically. Ask yourself:


  • Where am I now, in all aspects of my life (relationships, health, personal growth, spiritual life, career, finances)?
  • What brings me true joy and fulfillment, beyond just monetary gain?
  • What kind of life do I genuinely want to build? This involves envisioning your ideal day, week, and year.


This assessment will help you move beyond superficial desires and identify what truly resonates with you. It's about reconnecting with your purpose and understanding where you really want to be.


Step 2: Set Empowering Goals


With clarity comes the ability to set meaningful goals. Don't just pick goals because they seem lucrative or popular. Choose them because they align with your total life assessment and your grounded self.


Your goals should be S.M.A.R.T.:


  • Specific: Clearly defined, not vague.
  • Measurable: You need to know when you've achieved them.
  • Achievable: While challenging, they should be within the realm of possibility.
  • Relevant: They should matter to you and align with your values.
  • Time-bound: Set a realistic deadline.


For instance, instead of "I want to make more money," a better goal would be, "I will launch my online coaching business and achieve $5,000 in monthly recurring revenue by December 31, 2025."


Step 3: Break Down Your Journey with Milestones


The biggest mistake many make is looking at a grand goal and feeling overwhelmed. This is where milestones come in. Break your larger goals into smaller, manageable steps. These are your mini-victories along the way.

For our online coaching business example, milestones could include:


  • Completing a business plan.
  • Building a website.
  • Creating your first coaching program.
  • Landing your first paying client.
  • Achieving $1,000 in monthly revenue.


Each milestone provides a clear next action and prevents discouragement.


Step 4: Reward Your Progress


This is a critical, often overlooked step. Reward yourself for small achievements! This isn't about being extravagant; it's about acknowledging your effort and reinforcing positive behavior.


When you hit a milestone, take a moment to celebrate. This could be:


  • Enjoying your favorite coffee.
  • Taking an hour to read a book you love.
  • Spending quality time with family or friends.
  • Treating yourself to a new journal or a small item you've wanted.


These rewards create a positive feedback loop, keeping you motivated and engaged in the process.


Step 5: Tune Out the Noise and Stay the Course


One of the biggest hurdles to success is listening to the wrong people and getting easily discouraged. There will always be naysayers, well-meaning but misinformed friends, or even your own internal doubts.


  • Filter advice: Discern who you listen to. Seek guidance from those who have achieved what you aspire to, or from trusted mentors who genuinely support your growth.
  • Protect your mindset: When discouragement strikes, remind yourself of your "why." Revisit your goals, celebrate your past milestones, and lean on your spiritual grounding.


Remember, every successful person has faced setbacks. The difference is their ability to persevere and learn from challenges rather than giving up.


Your Abundance Awaits


Having many options is a gift. It means the world is full of possibilities for you. By taking the time to truly assess where you want to be, setting clear goals, breaking them into manageable milestones, celebrating your progress, and shielding yourself from negativity, you'll transform potential into tangible success. Don't just wish for success; strategically build it, one wise choice at a time.



What's one small step you can take today to get clearer on your path to success?


*Always consult a lawyer for more information.


~ Attorney Ronnie O’Brien Rice, Ph.D.


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